Sunday, June 6, 2010

TRUST

Hello every one. i'll try to keep this post short and let u decide if its sweet/sour(mosly sour+non sense). what is trust??? according to askoxford.com trust is: firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone. in simple words if a person believes in u, he trusts u. trust is wt my dad has in me wen he gives me the keys to his car. trust is wt a kid has in her mother wen d kid jumps on the count of 3. trust is actually a huge word. wen we trust some 1 we put a lot on their shoulders. we bcome dependent on them.trust is a huge reposibility. if some 1 is trustin u, respect that trust. it might be a secret, it might be a surprise, it can be anythin under the sun. remember amitabh bachchan in Lakshaya--" yeh vishwas bohot badi ijjat hai".. trust is pride for some 1. it could be the world for some 1 else. some of my friends say that i always trust the wrong ppl and i cant identify true frends. my point is evry one is a frend why shud i identify who is true and who is not? why should i think b4 i trust any 1? why cant evry one in this world be trustworthy?? infact i have realized that even i have broken a lot of ppl's trust. it could hve been wen a fren wanted to have dinner wid me and i ditched him, it could be a secret which i dint keep. in both cases i have broken some 1's trust. he/she would stop beleiving in me. i lost a lot of brownie points there.:P:P. to all those ppl whose trust i have broken(intentionally/unintentionally) plz understand that i dint want to do that. sorry is not my favourite word but i end up using it a lot. jut want to end this with a simple line- 'never break anyone's trust.'

PS: i dont know why i wrote this.
i dont know how i wrote this.
i dont know who wrote this.:P:P
this post is as irregular as it can get. bottom line-i am bad at this too. :(
i hope samajhne wale samajh gaye, jo na samjhe wo anari hai. :):)

4 comments:

Power of Words said...

Most important is trust in any relationship:):)this includes, sticking to your own words, keeping promises, staying far away from someone still trusting that person. It's an important factor and i guess i am not the 'anari' then:P

maverick said...

what about the peoples whose trust i've lost?? how can i make up to them?? how do i know if the damage is beyond repair? and what if i have stopped trusting people? what if i have lost trust in humanity and i find it difficult to trust any1? my only question is " why cant evry one(including me) be trustworthy?" .

aritreyee said...

you can always make up for the lost trust unless one is a total hopeless case!:-)
i came across this somewhere, 'By all means, trust. If you are right, you win a friend and if you are wrong, you just learn a lesson. :-)
trust and honesty keep things simple in life..the more u think, the more complicated everything gets.

aritreyee said...

i sort of contardicted myself maybe. But I think one can figure whom to trust and whom not too after a few incidents and instances.